Wednesday, October 24, 2007

Grey's Anatomy-Fact or Fiction?

So, I was eating dinner at the Corner Bakery the other night and couldn't help but over hear a conversation across the way. Two women were sitting and discussing what sounded like the health condition of one of their mothers. Apparently, she had just been diagnosed with Alzheimer's. They continued on in discussing what the doctor had told her to expect in the coming weeks, months, years. As their conversation continued, one of the women asked her dinner mate if she ever watched Grey's Anatomy? When I heard this, I immediately thought, what does this have to do with your mother? Well, it didn't take long to find out. She conveyed, in a very matter-of-fact manner, that Meredith's mother had Alzheimer's as well, but she came out of it at one point and remembered her daughter, but came back thinking it was year's earlier than it actually was. Now, I'm not going to lie, but this disturbed me for a number of reasons. First, Meredith's mother suffered from Dementia. Wrong illness. Second, Grey's Anatomy is a show, produced for entertainment, acted out by actors, and should not in any way be used as a reference for medical diagnoses. Third, I wondered if at some point in my life I will be that lady--comparing my life to that of the latest soap opera and identifying my situation with the lead character. If I ever do get to that point, someone, please, slap me and tell me to snap out of it. And if I don't, I give you permission to take away my driver's license. Institutionalize me. Drug me. Because, I apparently should not be a part of society any more...is this a little dramatic? I don't know. But, I'm pretty sure I won't be old and talking to my cat (I dislike cat's), so that's probably the only other alternative. However, I like to think that if I've lost it, that at least I'll be spunky enough to raise a little hell in the rest home instead of moping around complaining about my latest hip replacement.

3 comments:

Erin said...

why do you think we love shows so much and get addicted...some times I'll admit that I feel like I can relate..more to their relationships issues than the sawing of people's limbs or so on. That is sooo funny that those women were saying that though, what a bunch of idiots. I guess they weren't that big of fans if they couldn't get the disease right! And I'm sure you will be sassy and raise hell when you are old...you are going to be the spunky gma that everyone loves! I'm sure all my kids will like you way more than they will ever like me! oh how i miss the corner bakery and cant wait to visit there when we are home! we come dec 15-jan 6 and will be in az dec 30th-jan2nd or so. im so excited to see you!

Natalie said...

That is so interesting...people really do become obsessed and addicted. You'd think if she liked it that much she would at least know what disease it was.

Erin said...

i love your new background! so pretty!